Sometimes when people and people come together, its not as simple as it may have looked anymore. You may be good friends with your BFF for couple of years, but when you realli get to know this friend.. you know the flaw that exist inside too.. den you decide.. hmm shes not good enough.. You may be lovely dovely Couple with your bf.. but how well do you know him actually. You may love your siblings and know that shld anythg happens, you would always be there for them.. also there are days you realli feel like they were nv born. Things happens.. relationships are complicated stuff that needs patience, management and lots lots of effort.

Understanding another person maybe the easiest formula to managing relationship, that is, IF you are able to understand that person. How often do we ASSUME that we know when it turns out otherwise? How often do we use time as a guage of our understanding of the relationship? As i said, relationships are complicated.. its an effect of everythg that happened.. and a cause that made everythg else different. Understanding one may take time, but time without effort is useless. But so often so that we take eveythg for granted, "I'll get this present for my gf! She'll love it, I'll be such a good bf, she wuld love me." When she does receive the present, "Thanks dear, i love it" and brushed it off with a smile. Den you blame her not not being appreciative enough. But is that what she realli wanted? Do you realli understand her? You thought you did. Of cuz, on the other hand, does the grl understand the feelings he had for her while getting the present?

And den, communications becomes hard. Language is amazing. One sentence can give so many meanings, interpretation become a hard chore.. so we assume! Thats where problems comes in. What is said, may not be what is interpretated. What is interpretated may not be what it is meant. With our little vocabulary, we try to get our message as best across, but sometimes a step of wrong word choice lands us in... deep trouble. "No, thats not what i meant!" "But i heard you say it! You said XXX!" You did say it... now you cant take it back.. boo hoo.. too bad.

When two persons come together, things become complicated. Now, lets all take a step back. Look at the bigger picture, imagine how things would be for you if you were to switch roles. Putting yourself in others shoes is always said, when was is actualli done? And yes, even if you might have accepted that the situation may not look good on the other side too.. den.. are we willing to compromise? Understanding muz be followed with action. All talk is pointless.

Do you really understand your love ones?
Have you put yourself in their shoes?
Think about it.

And stop decieving yourself.